A Client Comes Through

Met up with a client today for a one-on-one. He was a tall, good-looking guy with a good personality who already had some success with women, so he wasn't a fish out of water. We went to Bar Louie and talked over beers. Anyhow, his concern was with a girl that he was really into, and he described the get-together as his Super Bowl. I advised him not to look at it that way. Don't go into the date with an outcome in mind, but just to have fun. Relax and enjoy yourself. If you're relaxed and having fun, then most likely so will the woman. Pumping the date up in your mind as this MAJOR event is only going to make you nervous and needy, and the woman will sense that. Neediness KILLS attraction. It's okay to look forward to spending time with someone, but if you treat the interaction as this major event that you can't blow, you're going to start THINKING too much and start reading too much into the woman's reactions to you. Relax yourself, be playful, be affectionate, and HAVE FUN. That's the most important thing.

A word on SEXUAL AWARENESS. As you become more confident in yourself and start attracting more women into your life, you begin to develop a comfort with yourself where you're able focus your attention OUTWARD instead of on yourself and your own thoughts. You're able to see and sense things that you hadn't sensed before because you were too busy stuck in your own head. You'll be able to SENSE when a woman is sexually attracted to you. Your SEXUAL AWARENESS will heighten. These days, I can normally SENSE when a woman is attracted to me and she doesn't have to say a word. It's all in the EYES. Tonight I saw 2 women in Bar Louie who gave me that "eye" and I could tell right away that they were interested. Sometimes you can even feel the vibration - feel the energy, and you know it's ON.

Last Thursday I recorded a radio interview with WKKC, 89.3 FM here in Chicago. The show will air on Saturday, August 23 at 9:00AM. For those who are out of range, it can be heard online at http://www.wkkc.fm/. I will also post the interview on my website for download.

A New Beginning!

I'm not a 9-to-5 person and I never was. When I got my first job when I was 18, deep inside I knew that working for others just wasn't for me. I've always been business-minded. If I'm going to make a living doing something, it's going to be something that I'm passionate about. For example, I'm passionate about NFL football, I'm passionate about boxing, and I'm passionate about women. That last passion is my latest venture. I want to help otherwise decent guys get out of their own heads and attract more love and intimacy into their lives, so I'm starting CHICAGO DATING COACH. I hate seeing guys screw up their chances with women due to ignorance, lack of experience, or lack of guidance, so I decided to do something about it.

I absolutely love this subject and I love answering questions regarding it, so feel free to send me any questions or concerns that you may have.